Thursday, March 1, 2007

Use "doubt" to improve ur relationship

Today's tip is going to be a little bit "evil". I'm
going to tell you that sometimes it is good for your girlfriend
to feel a little bit insecure about herself.

When a woman feels insecure about herself or doubts that
you will stay with her, the "natural" response is usually to
comfort or reassure her. But guess what? That is not always the
right thing to do.

If a woman is one hundred percent certain that you won't
ever leave her, guess what she's going to do?

That's right. She's going to lower her attraction for
you. She may even cheat or leave you for another man.

Think about it. If a woman is never sure if you would
leave her if she ever cheated on you, do you think she would be
LESS likely to cheat on you?

Of course, this does not mean that you should be
"abusive" and make a woman feel insecure on purpose. I do not
teach any of that. (Nor do I believe in it.) However, what I DO
suggest you to do is to "draw the boundaries". From the moment
you get into a relationship with a woman, show her that you won't
tolerate any "bullsh**" by acting like a man. Don't be afraid of
calling out on her when she "screws up", and don't be afraid
of giving her the silent treatment or pulling back from the
relationship if she misbehaves.

The moment you let a woman get cocky in the relationship
is the moment you start losing her. Never forget that!

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