Saturday, February 24, 2007

The Single Magic Bullet of Dating

I've noticed a common thing among many men: They
all want to find the "single magic bullet" that will change
their love lives instantly.

These guys are constantly looking for new information
especially for the latest "Holy Grail" of - such as
the "seven magic words" that they will pierce through the
thick armor of a woman's heart and wins her love instantly.

Unfortunately, this "magic bullet" does not exist
in real life, and neither does hyped websites that offer a
single method. You can't instantly win a woman's heart by
just uttering a few words or putting on a dash of the latest
pheromone.

In the real world, if you get a BB gun and shoot
BB bullets at a window, you're not going to break it. The
bullets are just going to bounce off the window. But if you
melt a hundred BB bullets together and throw it at a window
like a baseball, it's going to crack it open.

Dating is the same. EVERY action you do will either
attract a woman towards you or push her away from you.
All your tiny actions may seem very insignificant to you,
but when you add them together, they'll determine the amount
of success you have with a woman.

Too many men try to "act cocky" or "be funny"...and
don't realize that it's the CUMULATIVE EFFORT of their actions
that really "get" them women.

When you go after a woman, I want you to be FLEXIBLE.
If one technique doesn't work, don't be stubborn and keep
pushing it. TRY SOMETHING ELSE. This sound like common sense,
but if I could have a penny for every time a guy tried to
use something that wasn't working, I would be a rich man by
now. Not every technique will work for every woman...so you
want to make sure you have a VARIETY of tools that you can
pull out at anytime.

Lastly, don't forget that the MORE you use a single
technique, the LESS effective it will become. If you tell
the same joke over and over, it's not going to be funny
anymore. Same with dating techniques. If you repeat something
with a woman too much, you will become predictable and
BORING.
Stay tuned to more of my tips and advices .From
approaching women to getting numbers and dates and beyond,
you will know every step you need to take - step
by step.

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