How To Get A Woman's Phone Number Within Three Minutes

Let me start off by telling you something interesting:
        
I've personally stopped focusing on just getting phone numbers.
I've found that EMAIL addresses are far better
(I still get the phone number too, of course).
        
Let me explain.
        
I perfected the art of getting phone numbers a couple of years ago.
        
If a woman is single, I can walk up to her and get her number in
about a minute or two (if I'm in a hurry). I found out later,
after working like a mad scientist on this that GETTING PHONE
NUMBERS ALONE DOESNT'T EQUAL SUCCESS.
        
You see, women have many different reasons for giving out their
phone numbers. Some love the attention of having a lot of men call
them. Some like to turn guys down. Some are actually interested. But
the universal feedback that I get from men, and in my personal
experience, women act different on the phone than they do in
person.
        
When you call a woman for the first time, she'll often start
acting stand offish or even worse, just plain rude. It's almost
like she's a different person than the one you met.
        
I've found that getting an EMAIL address is not only easier, but
it gets more positive responses later on. It's almost as if women
appreciate it that you've taken the time to think about what you're
going to say when you write an email to them, and they think of
you more like someone they know.
        
The other benefit of email is that it can be written and answered
anytime.
        
If you call, you have to actually reach them. But an email can be
answered anytime. And I've found that emails are answered FAR more
often than voicemail messages.
        
HERE'S THE HOW TO:
        
After I've talked to a woman for about 3 or 4 minutes, I'll often
say something like "Well, it was nice meeting you. I'm going to
get back to my friends."
        
They usually don't know what to do, as they're used to guys
clinging to them. Most of the time, they say "It was nice meeting
you too..."  Then, just as I'm turning to walk away, and we kind
of disconnect, I turn back and say

"HEY! Do you have email?"
        
The "HEY!" is a bit surprising, and "Do you have email" is
non-threatening. In fact, I'm technically asking her if she HAS
email, not if she'll GIVE IT TO ME.
        
If she says "yes," I take out a pen and paper and say "Great,
write it down for me" and I have her write it down. (This is
great, as I just treat the 'yes' that they give me as a yes to
get it from them as well. And they've almost ALL gone along with
it so far) Then AS SHE'S IN THE MIDDLE OF WRITING, I say "Write
your number down there too."

When you ask for email, it's very low risk for a woman, so she'll
think "Fine, I'll do that." Most women will give out an email
address without thinking about it, because they know that they
can choose later to just not answer.
        
The magic of asking them to write their phone number down WHILE
they're in the middle of writing down their email is all about
the psychology of human behavior.
        
She's already mentally said "OK, I'll give you my email
address"... and she's in the middle of writing it down. When you
say "And just write your number down there too" it's only
NATURAL to just write it.
        
In other words, it's a MUCH smaller step than giving out the
phone number all by itself. It took me a LONG time to figure out
this simple move, but it works like magic! You will have women
writing their phone numbers down without even thinking twice.
        
Here's a great add-on to make sure you're getting a real phone
number and not a pager or voicemail:
        
As she's writing down her phone number I say "Is this a number
that you actually answer?" If she looks at me and hesitates, or
says that it's her "voicemail or pager number," then I say "Look,
write your real number down. It's going to be OK, I'll only call
you nine times a day..." They laugh and usually give me their
real number.
        
Now, if she answers my first question and says "No, I don't have
email" then I bust on them and say "Well, do you have
electricity?" This is a GREAT opportunity to use humor.
        
Then I say "Well, OK then. I like email better, but I'll take
your regular phone number. It's so damn hard to reach people on
the phone these days."
        
Just realize that all you have to do is ask.
        
Like I said, I've tried all kinds of things.  And I've gotten
hundreds of phone numbers. And I use this exact sequence every
time I talk to a woman and I want to get her phone number. I've
gotten to the point where I can often do this in a minute or
two - no kidding!
        
Now that you know the sequence, write it down with the words
and the steps, and rehearse it in your mind over and over until
you know exactly what to say for each step and each response.

Many guys have asked me "But what do I tell her as a reason why I
want her number or email?" I've never had a woman ask me. If you
ask, and they give it, then she knows why you asked. If she
doesn't give it to you, then she also knew why you asked.
        
Just assume that this is the case.
        
If you ask every time, and you do it in a smooth, assuming, calm
way, you'll get a lot of emails and phone numbers.
        
Note: Carry a pen on you at all times. I prefer the Fisher Space
Pen (chrome) because it's small, classy, and women love it!