
People always tell me" I met this hot chick on a Saturday night
and we clicked really good. But when i called her yesterday,
she ignored all my calls. Why?"
The first reason is due to a lack of attraction.
Remember that by the time you CALL a woman for a date, her
initial impression of you will have ALREADY been formed. She
already knows whether she wants to go out with you or not.
So if she doesn't answer, it means she's just not attracted to
you "enough".
In that case, then you should have attracted her MORE
before you asked for her phone number using the techniques you
have learned from my "Smart Dating Course". You should have
flirted with her more, teased her more, and acted more of a
challenge in front of her.
But of course...there are times when a woman seems to
be attracted to you enough to MAKEOUT with you. Yet, she still
does not return your calls the day after.
This is mostly due to a "lack of intimacy".
This problem usually occurs when you advance too far
with a woman physically without first creating an emotional
bond with her.
For example, if you makeout with a woman but do
not build enough comfort before you call her, she's going to
feel a bit like a slut when she hears from you. She knows why
you're calling, and she's not interested in getting any more.
She's no longer in a sexually aroused state, and any chance to
"talk" her into hanging out will only make her even MORE
uncomfortable.
Keep calling, and she will block your number.
Solution? Make sure you leave a woman emotionally
connected to you BEFORE you leave with her phone number. Don't
just makeout and get physical with her. Stand out from all the
other strangers she has made out with in the past by creating
a bond she has never felt with any other man.
This could be a deep conversation about her dreams,
OR it could be something REALLY simple...such as giving her a
little bit of recognition for acting different than other
women. (Hint: Most people like to believe that they are somehow
"better" than other people.)
For example, bust her balls and tell her you won't treat
her special just because she's beautiful because there are
beautiful women all around the world. Then tell her she does
look like she's a bit smarter than all the other girls at the
club. When she thanks you, tell her you have to go but would
love to hang out with her some time.
Let HER offer her phone number to you. Then talk to
her some more (if you need to build any more rapport or
build up the chemistry more) and GET OUT OF THERE!
Monday, January 15, 2007
Why Women Do Not Call Back - And What To Do About It
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