Wednesday, January 17, 2007

How to turn a "friend" into a "girlfriend"

Have you ever been attracted to a girl who just wants
to "be friends" with you? If so, this article is probably going
to be the most important article you've ever read this month. In
the next few moments, I am going to show you how you can turn
a "friend" into a "girlfriend" without jeopardizing your
friendship with her.

A lot of guys like to fantasize about befriending a
hottie and sucking up to her until she finally sees what a
great guy he is and starts dating him.

Ugh. It doesn't work that way.

You see, to a women, there are 2 categories of men:
"potential lovers" and "just friends". Once you have fallen
into the "just friends" category, it's hard to get out.
You are most likely to be stuck for life. I call this the
"friendship trap".

So...if you meet a girl you like, please?make your
move. Do not become the "doormat" she runs to when she is
between boyfriends.

Now, maybe you're "stuck" as a friend already (too bad
you hadnt read this earlier eh?) so I'm going to give you
a few tips on how to turn a friend into a girlfriend.

First of all, DON'T tell your friend you like her!

I am serious. DO NOT tell your friend you like her
directly.

Most guys spend days or weeks gathering the courage
to tell a girl they like her, only to fail miserably!

Remember the key to attraction is...it's not how much
you're attracted to a woman, but how much she is attracted
to YOU that matters.

Women do not care about a man loves them. They only care
about how much THEY like a man. I am sure you like her, but does
she like you? YOU DON'T KNOW! And that's why you should NOT risk
embarrassing yourself!

Also, men who "gather the courage" to "suddenly tell the
girl he loves her" usually do it at the "wrong" time, like when
a girl least expects it. Surprises are scary and women don't know
how to react. Their NATURAL reaction is to turn you down on the
spot ("I have a boyfriend" or "I am not looking for someone right
now", etc) just to be safe - even if they regret it later.

So, instead of putting the focus on your feelings and
worrying about how you can tell her you love her, I want you to
focus on getting HER to tell you she likes you.

Now, the biggest difference between a friendship and a
relationship is that there is sexual/romantic chemistry, and
that's why I want you to start flirting with her and drive the
chemistry up. It's time to ATTRACT her, not to chase her. Your
goal is to get HER to fall for you and eventually ask you the "Are
we together?" question.

Lastly, flirting with her will allow you to see if she
likes you or not. If she ignores you or doesn't respond well to
the flirting, then she's not interested in you. But if she flirts
back, she wants you!

So...tell me...just how much do you want to be with
the girl of your dreams? Just how much do you want to have a sweet
girlfriend?

1 comments:

Anonymous said...

I realy want to be with her ..
and dont know where to start.
it sucks